gapingvoid: "cartoons drawn on the back of business cards"

Never? If you think that this is really true, she might be a narcissist. I've two friends who went through very painful breakups this year. Both times with people who were narcissistic. They are manipulators, seducers. It was awful. In the first case, a friend with a habit of picking the wounded...he married her, she cheated on him, maybe from day 1...I asked him to think about it carefully and to be sure to choose someone who was coming to him in a loving way next time. It's a pattern he's got to break. The second, she'd known him all her life, but didn't know him at all, or herself which, now that she's alone, she needs to discover. Good luck to you, Hugh.

shouldn't you have posted this back on feb 14?

hooray, onward and upward time.

Love these!

We all go into these relationships with eyes wide shut!